man dating, dating, dating. I find it kind of funny when I sit back and look at how sought after relationships are with teenagers. It makes me wonder has it always been this way or is this just the way that my generation is progressing ? What I mean by this is how much teenagers [myself included at times] yern to be with someone. I see how down and out some people get about being single like they're like 40 and still looking to settle down. We get so bent out of shape over being alone and envious of others and the relationships that they have and you don't. I fully understand why...I think that everyone wants the constant reminder that they are something to someone, more then just a blip on the radar. People want that constant reassurance of care and knowing that at any given point in time that there is atleast that one person that will care for you. I just find it strange how 15, 16 , 17 , etc. year olds act as if it's the end of the world while they're single. Constantly looking and searching for love. Half the time teenage relationships are not even really taken seriously by outsiders looking in, but I just see how these relationships change and mold people. Is the love/relationship between a 16 year old and another 16 year old the same as a 35 year old and another 35 year old ?

I notice how much I have grown in the past couple of months...So let me give you the background.. I used to give my ex sooo much power, not so much because I still liked him or anything but I  gave his opinion too much leeway...But a little while ago I asked him what he would rate me on a scale of 1 to 10 and he told me 3, and yes at that point in time it really effed with me....it didn't make me feel good about myself at all. Today an arguement arised about my looks and where I stand physically and basically I refused to let him make me feel like I was anything less then what I thought about myself. I have come to realize that I should NEVER ever give some one the power to make me feel negitively about myself in that way and that it was my fault to begin with. But now I've got the mind state that I am beautiful and if you don't want to give me my credit then kick rocks. And you know what else he walked around with the 3 on his arm for about 6 months so I must have been something right. 

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i tend to find myself on the outside looking in when it comes to the "love of money", mainly because I find myself on the polar opposite end. I utterly hate money, and honestly if I could live sufficiently and the way that I would like to I would live without it but of course that is completely impossible. There's the wordly issues about money and how its something that people kill eachother over and that's bad enough...But for me it's kind of simple..When I sit back and I think to myself "what is really worth me spending money on?" and in doing so I come up with nothing. When it comes down to clothes and all of that stuff like yeaa I love to look nice at all times but like I really have a lot of clothes as is and wonderful but I'd like to think that I dress nicely and like what do I really need to get dressed for? don't let this make you think I look like a bum because that's not me I haven't even worn sweats to school in yeeaars ! But back to the lecture at hand like what do I need new clothes for? To go kick it with the same damn people I see all the time? to go to school where I feel no need to impress anyone? Currently I find money as the source of all my headaches, it is so straining and I just hate the fact that something I hate so much I cannot possibly live without. I mean just think about how much money rules YOU, many of your goals all revolve around it and you spend your whole life working for it and how it really grants you happiness no matter how much you try and front like it doesn't.  Isn't it ironic how money was created by man yet man lives by the dollar? I know it drives me crazy how I lust so much for something that is the one thing that I can honestly say I truly despise with a passion and I can never eliminate it from my life. idk maybe if I become filthy stinking rich in life I won't care anymore?

cherry on top of the ice cream !

 maaaaaaan ! So much stress. Okay man never did I think I would be one of those people wondering whether or not I am going to graduate especially over no damn P.E CREDITSS !!!!? Like really! At my schoool you need 2.5 credits of p.e/health to graduate [which is stupid like why do i need more p.e then science !!?! wtf?] ugggh. I have not taken P.E since 9th grade for a semester to give me .5, right now I am in a Nutrition and Fitness class and once I'm done with that I will have 1.5 ! I can't go into the a P.E class and I would to the P.E alternative and go to the gym but hello! No way to get there ! ugh. So I have two options, do two online courses which cost $121 each so $242 or Play Lacrosse for a alternative and do an online class for $121 ! Thing is if I play Lacrosse I can't work ! and I NEED to work to save ! But $242 is a lot right now seeing as to how I have $100 in fines I need to pay, I still need to get my cap and gown, college registration fees, AND PROM STUFF ! I'm kind of debating whether or not I am going to go to Prom because that is a lot of money and I need to make some sacrifices ! ugh. so stressful ! Who wants to loan me $242 and I'll pay you baaaack with my first paycheck !!? lol. I hella don't want to ask my parents ! ugh.